We love feedback – I’ve got alerts, RSS feeds and filters up the wazoo to let me know what people are saying. And the new feedback system for OSCON totally rocks!  We got messages about how we did instantly, and there’s nothing better for improving your presentation than getting constructive criticism right away.

But there was one message that really stuck in our craw!  Someone thought we had emphasized the social aspects of running user groups way too much.

Here’s the thing: user groups are social. The primary mission of a user group is to (wait for it…): Meet Other People.

That’s the difference between a lecture, or a class, or a job. Maybe you are coming to the meeting because you want to learn something from the topic, but the primary goal of a user group has to be about the people who are there and facilitating ways for those people to make one-to-one connections.

User groups are a way to, on a very small scale, enable the type of connections you can make at conferences. Except user groups target a very specific topic, and can in some cases be a better bet for meeting people concerned about the same things as you are in your industry!

And usually, user groups meet after hours during a person’s free time – time that they could be spending with their family, friends or just chilling out. Respect that donation of time and make it worth a person’s while! A bit of technical information never lasts as long as a new colleague or friend.